Because your personality has merged with your Self (Our Self) or the SUPREME SELF OF ALL you have merged in knowing all other Selves and Nature as a Whole. When your personality merges with The Self you merge in knowing all Selves. You know everyone is going through what you are in their own individualized way. Your (our) position or part of the cosmos has become clear. You know Oneness. You know the Whole. You know the vastness. You know eternity. You know energy. This is Self-Realization or Enlightenment.
Working wholeheartedly with your priority in the Spirit of Truth for the betterment (LOVE) of humanity is the Abundant Life (happiness). What are the factors of your priority? Are the factors of your priority balanced? Are you serious and not greedy?
But seek ye first the queendom-kingdom of God and God’s righteousness and all these things (requests) shall be added unto you. Edited for our time – Matthew 6:33, KJV. Trust in God is most important. As you proceed in the Spirit of Truth with the overall intention of helping humanity in some way your request or its equivalent will be granted to you in the way you need it.