And we do this with each other. We send the transforming grace of forgiveness to one another but forgiveness does not necessarily mean immediate association. A person has to fully absolve themself and this can become evident to others.
Reconciliation means that there is no division within the Self/self concerning the deed under Self-Scrutiny. The deed has been analyzed and understood in multiple depths and has been reconciled. The True-Self has subsumed that part of the small-self and there is no division about the deed. The deed has been resolved. It will not be carried out again. A union has taken place between the True-Self and the small-self concerning the nature of the deed. This is Character Development. Many unions of opposites take place on the way to the major union or merging between the True-Self and small-self in what Yoga calls Self-Realization. We become One within. Our shared Universal Mind becomes clear. Self-Realization is referred to as Divine Union in the branch of Theology called Mystical Theology.